Learn To Succeed By Knowing Who You Really Are.
Have you come in a situation where you had the impression that you were talking with someone whiles you know truly that noone was there. It happens and some of my friends always ask who that was.I only tells them that, it's their true and inner self. The whole idea is,each one of us has his or her unique personality. But within this personality there is one inner self that is calm and peaceful, that does not participate in the activities of life. It merely observes the things around us and draws conclusions from it. The inner self is our true self, free from all the pretence; it is how we actually are. It can make a person aware once he or she realizes its presence. However, it all depends on a person how he approaches it.
I can build a happy life only on the foundation of my own nature.
When a person
starts recognizing this inner self, it gives him a clearer view towards
the situations of life. He develops a way to his creativity and talent.
It gives us the solution to our problems and inspiration to pursue our
goals at an instant even when we are not thinking about that issue. It
helps us in taking our decisions and guides us to choose the right path.
When a person starts realizing the essence of this inner self, he will
himself be able to notice the transformation within him. He will become
much more dignified, composed, and noble. This is to say that he will
give greater priority to the state of being, to the values and morals of
life than taking to negative means to achieve success in his life. It
will shift a person’s priorities from the material pursuits of life to
the achievement of a higher being. However, it may take some time.
A path that can lead a person to his inner self is awareness. One should always be aware of what is happening around him, but should not try to take any judgment over it. He should have feelings and opinion but at the same time, he should not forget that it is not the reality.
As Christopher Alexander observed: “It is hard, so terribly hard, to please yourself. Far from being the easy thing that it sounds like, it is almost the hardest thing in the world, because we are not always comfortable with that true self that lies deep within us.”
It needs strong will power to recognize this inner self, as the personality of a person will all the time guards the person from achieving this true self that lie within him.
However, like other things we need to put in some efforts and time to achieve it. Meditation and concentration are two of such methods that can help us gain access to our inner self. It has become an essential part of our lives irrespective of our age groups. It benefits everyone from a child to an old man.
It rejuvenates a person and gives him an insight to his higher inner self. It makes him aware about his strengths and weaknesses, which further help him in exploring a better part of him. He adds on to his strengths and subtracts his weaknesses. The tranquility of mind accomplished through it lets him maintain his calm in the most stressful and troublesome environment.
When a person initiates the practice of meditation he is able to enjoy more in life. Meditation also aids in disentangling the mystery that lays hidden under life and death of an individual. It takes him away from the negative thoughts and impurities of life and attains a higher divine self within him. Sleep also plays an important role in this phenomenon. It relaxes a person’s mind and body. By giving an outlet to his hidden and repressed desires, he manages to refresh himself from the hassles of everyday life. The other part is concentration that enables a person achieve his goals in life, gives him a focus towards his aim, and grasp more knowledge. It also increases the memory of a person. Thus, for a healthy and successful living it is necessary to reach the inner part that is present within each one of us.
You can easily reach your goals and success if you follow these rules. There is another one i can add to the list and that's POSITIVE THINKING.
If you really want to succeed in anything, follow or think about it positively. We live in a world full of abundance. No matter what you want in our life, our universe posses it in abundance.
And with positive thinking, you can easily meet success in your way. Almost 90% of successful and celebrities will tell you they saw themselves as they were before becoming what they are today.
So make good use of your thinking and become the successful person you've always dreamed of. The more you invest in mastering your inner self, the more you can benefit. To help you out, take a sheet of paper and write all that you like about yourself, those you hate about yourself and the qualities you want to develop.Make your plans about how to develop the positive ones and discard the negative ones. Ask from your friends what they hate from you and what they like about you. This makes you know much about you and your personality.
Ask your yourself some questions which will take you in reflection. These questions will open your eyes and then awake you to provide responses which reflect who you are.
Some questions to start:
Are you fine with your current condition?
Are you a morning person or a night person?
Are you comfortable or uncomfortable in a disorderly environment?
Do you work well under pressure?
Do you find it easier to do things for other people than to do things for yourself?
Do you work constantly? or think you should be working?
Are you motivated by competition?
What would your perfect day look like?
If at the end of the year, you had accomplished one thing, what is the one accomplishment that would make the biggest difference to your happiness?
What would you do if you had more energy?
Are you socialized in your community?
What’s more satisfying to you: saving time or saving money?
Do you get frustrated easily?
Do you like offering hands to the poor and needy?
There are a lot of questions you can pose and provide your answers.
You then need to analyze each of them and search for solution to them.
You are your own hero and you are capable. You can succed if you know who you are. You shouldn't wait tommorrow to know your inner self. Do it today.
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